Self -Doubt – Your biggest hurdle towards Success.

How many times has it happened that you want say out or do or ask something but were held back , just because of one silly reason….. ” SELF DOUBT “
Well , happened with me alot of times like when I was in school many – a – times I knew the answer to that question which my teacher asked but I doubted myself whether I was right or not and never raised my hand ✋ , but then someone else used to stand up and say the same answer which I thought of and was well appreciated. At that time I couldn’t do or say much than to just sit and regret . I am telling you guys I felt worse and even useless.
But I eventually, overcame the fear of self doubt which had it’s roots in my mind with the question “what will happen if I / you go wrong ” this stupid question used to haunt me a lot.

What if ….. This or That happen

“My friends and teacher would consider me as a ‘dumb’ student”

To all those who suffers from this fear my only personal advice is whenever you are in such situation just remember this little story this helped me lot during my “self-doubting” times

Just go ahead and read it!!

Once a sage called his disciples and showed them a RS 100 note and said

“Who wants this Note ? “

Everyone raised their hands.

Then the sage did something unusal he crushed the note and again asked the same question

Again everyone raised their hands

Then put the note under his feet and stamped it

He again asked the same question and same response followed.

Then he smiled and said ” Students you must be thinking that why am I showing and asking you all this , well there is a very important lesson behind this,

You see when I crumpled and stamped the note in dust still you all wanted , it’s value never decreased in your eyes unless If I had tired it .

Same goes in our lives many a times we fail and are stamped down from our ownselves , we fall down in everyone’s expectations, and fell in the depth of despair but even in all those situations remember that our value remains the same .

So guys never be afraid to make mistakes make them and accept the full responsibility of them that’s the only way to get rid of these fears .

Feeling Stronger Now ??😉